http://lifeatthebar.com/blog Attorney development coaching for associates and partners Sat, 28 Jan 2012 03:13:06 +0000 http://backend.userland.com/rss092 en I'm back in the office this week between two business trips. Last year, I decided to cut back on travel, and I'm now away less than a week each quarter - not counting my annual 3-week vacation. Being in the office more than out has highlighted the importance of staying ... http://lifeatthebar.com/blog/index.php/2012/01/27/the-main-thing/ Book Review: Strategy and the Fat Smoker By: David Maister As the title of David Maister's book Strategy and the Fat Smoker suggests, the problem isn't that we don't know what to do: it's that we do know and yet we choose to ignore that knowledge. Maister promises a dose of "real" ... http://lifeatthebar.com/blog/index.php/2012/01/13/what-you-know-can-keep-you-stuck/ I love college football. There's something about the rivalry, the enthusiasm of players (most of whom have to know they're playing for the love of the game, not for a shot at the pros), and the strategy that's great fun to watch. Football also offers lessons for business development, as I ... http://lifeatthebar.com/blog/index.php/2012/01/06/playing-to-win/ What does "great lawyering" mean? To many attorneys, great lawyering means possessing enormous technical expertise, good judgment, and years of experience in which to develop those attributes. That's what we all seek to develop, and it's usually what we admire in others. But what do clients mean? That's the question that ... http://lifeatthebar.com/blog/index.php/2011/12/27/the-essential-little-book-of-great-lawyering-2/ I'm on a rant. Last week, I spoke with a potential client who shared that his practice has been shrinking in the last few years. We discussed his obstacles and his opportunities, and there's quite a bit he can leverage. The problem became apparent, though, when I asked what he's tried. ... http://lifeatthebar.com/blog/index.php/2011/12/16/stop-chasing-the-silver-bullet/ Time is speeding up. I never quite understood the theory of relativity on a visceral level until I thought about it with reference to time a few years ago. Here we are at the end of 2011, and yet it feels like the year has hardly begun. I've been working on ... http://lifeatthebar.com/blog/index.php/2011/12/09/congratulations-on-your-failure/ Failure is often a difficult topic for high performers.After all, those who achieve much do so by making it a habit to avoid failure. More than a few times, when I've talked with my own coach, the conversation has ended up with me saying, "Well, that's fine, but ... http://lifeatthebar.com/blog/index.php/2011/12/02/are-you-afraid-to-fail/ Although gratitude is a "soft" topic, always remember that everyone likes to be appreciated: clients, staff, and colleagues especially included. Have you said thank you recently? As for me, I'm grateful for the opportunity to "talk with" you every week via this newsletter. I don't ... http://lifeatthebar.com/blog/index.php/2011/11/29/giving-thanks/ Five of the most useful articles I've read this month. 1. Five Secrets to Successful Rainmaking. In addition to five great tips, this article briefly explores why rainmaking matters especially for woman and those interested in working flex-time. (Gentlemen, this article is good for you, too.) 2. How to Adopt a Sales Mindset. A short ... http://lifeatthebar.com/blog/index.php/2011/11/18/novembers-featured-reading/ Book Review: Little Bets by Peter Sims I discovered Little Bets through an Amazon announcement, and as soon as I read the promotional copy, I hurried to purchase the book: What do Apple CEO Steve Jobs, comedian Chris Rock, prize-winning architect Frank Gehry, the story developers at Pixar films, and the Army Chief ... http://lifeatthebar.com/blog/index.php/2011/11/17/little-bets/