<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss version="2.0"
	xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/"
	xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/"
	xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom"
	xmlns:sy="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/syndication/"
	xmlns:itunes="http://www.itunes.com/dtds/podcast-1.0.dtd"
	xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/"
	>
<channel>
	<title>Comments for Life at the Bar LLC Blog</title>
	<atom:link href="http://lifeatthebar.com/blog/index.php/comments/feed/" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml" />
	<link>http://lifeatthebar.com/blog</link>
	<description>Attorney development coaching for associates and partners</description>
	<lastBuildDate>Thu, 10 Dec 2009 18:39:08 -0500</lastBuildDate>
	<generator>http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8</generator>
	<sy:updatePeriod>hourly</sy:updatePeriod>
	<sy:updateFrequency>1</sy:updateFrequency>
		<item>
		<title>Comment on WRA 12/10/09: Finding out who&#8217;s naughty and nice by Joie Johnson</title>
		<link>http://lifeatthebar.com/blog/index.php/2009/12/10/wra-121009-finding-out-whos-naughty-and-nice/comment-page-1/#comment-33031</link>
		<dc:creator>Joie Johnson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Dec 2009 18:39:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://lifeatthebar.com/blog/?p=1010#comment-33031</guid>
		<description>T&#039;would be nice to let your secretary or assistant to know that as well.  Either you or she (he) could put that in a note in Lotus Notes or wherever to remember some of this.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>T&#8217;would be nice to let your secretary or assistant to know that as well.  Either you or she (he) could put that in a note in Lotus Notes or wherever to remember some of this.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>Comment on Are you wasting your time? by Michelle Alford</title>
		<link>http://lifeatthebar.com/blog/index.php/2009/12/02/are-you-wasting-your-time/comment-page-1/#comment-32585</link>
		<dc:creator>Michelle Alford</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Dec 2009 16:52:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://lifeatthebar.com/blog/?p=1003#comment-32585</guid>
		<description>People have a tendency of tuning out ads these days too.  Even if your sponsorship means that your name is posted on every tent, every bag, and every booth, if you polled people as they left the event, probably ninety percent of them would have no idea who the sponsor was.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>People have a tendency of tuning out ads these days too.  Even if your sponsorship means that your name is posted on every tent, every bag, and every booth, if you polled people as they left the event, probably ninety percent of them would have no idea who the sponsor was.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>Comment on WRA 12/1/09: Are you doing it wrong? by Michelle Alford</title>
		<link>http://lifeatthebar.com/blog/index.php/2009/12/01/wra-12109-are-you-doing-it-wrong/comment-page-1/#comment-32500</link>
		<dc:creator>Michelle Alford</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Dec 2009 14:24:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://lifeatthebar.com/blog/?p=994#comment-32500</guid>
		<description>You&#039;re absolutely right.  I often attend networking events, and it&#039;s amazing how often they&#039;re filled with people who aren&#039;t actually interested in meeting other people, but who instead just want to broadcast who they are and move on.  It&#039;s like the difference between meeting someone in a supermarket and having a meaningful conversation that results in future engagements, and using the overhead system to announce who you are, what you do, and your contact info in case anyone wants to meet with you later.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You&#8217;re absolutely right.  I often attend networking events, and it&#8217;s amazing how often they&#8217;re filled with people who aren&#8217;t actually interested in meeting other people, but who instead just want to broadcast who they are and move on.  It&#8217;s like the difference between meeting someone in a supermarket and having a meaningful conversation that results in future engagements, and using the overhead system to announce who you are, what you do, and your contact info in case anyone wants to meet with you later.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>Comment on Weekly Rainmaker Activity 11/24/09: Give thanks for referrals by Michelle Alford</title>
		<link>http://lifeatthebar.com/blog/index.php/2009/11/24/weekly-rainmaker-activity-112409-give-thanks-for-referrals/comment-page-1/#comment-32009</link>
		<dc:creator>Michelle Alford</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Nov 2009 18:20:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://lifeatthebar.com/blog/?p=986#comment-32009</guid>
		<description>It&#039;s amazing to me how many people fail to simply say thank you. That alone may cause someone to choose to refer the next client to someone else. 

Giving a referral requires a lot of trust in that other lawyer, because a referral that goes badly could cause bad feelings towards the person who gave it--which is especially bad if this is someone who may use your services at some point in the future. Lawyers need to keep this in mind and demonstrate their appreciation of that trust.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&#8217;s amazing to me how many people fail to simply say thank you. That alone may cause someone to choose to refer the next client to someone else. </p>
<p>Giving a referral requires a lot of trust in that other lawyer, because a referral that goes badly could cause bad feelings towards the person who gave it&#8211;which is especially bad if this is someone who may use your services at some point in the future. Lawyers need to keep this in mind and demonstrate their appreciation of that trust.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>Comment on &#8220;I hate being a lawyer&#8221; by Julie A. Fleming</title>
		<link>http://lifeatthebar.com/blog/index.php/2007/10/03/i-hate-being-a-lawyer/comment-page-1/#comment-31998</link>
		<dc:creator>Julie A. Fleming</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Nov 2009 15:15:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.lifeatthebar.com/blog/?p=293#comment-31998</guid>
		<description>Nicole,

What a challenging decision you&#039;re facing!  The biggest issue I see is on the money right now.  You&#039;re correct that public interest law is typically not highly paid (though a few firms have been working on a new business model that could alter that, to some degree), and animal rights law is in the same category.  What&#039;s more, with the layoffs of the last 18 months or so, the market is saturated with highly qualified and experienced lawyers, which makes it more difficult for new lawyers to find a position.  That certainly isn&#039;t to say it&#039;s impossible, and it&#039;s hard to guess what the market will be in 3-5 years, when you&#039;d be finishing law school, but it&#039;s something to consider.  Also, if you choose to apply, look *very* carefully at the school&#039;s employment record, and be sure to ask for the percentage of graduates who are employed in the legal field at and within 6 months to a year following graduation.  A good education is important, but having a job is (for most of us) critical.

I just did a radio interview and we briefly addressed the decision about whether to attend law school.  If you&#039;re interested, you can find the recording here: http://www.modavox.com/voiceamerica/vepisode.aspx?aid=42543

Whatever your decision, best wishes!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Nicole,</p>
<p>What a challenging decision you&#8217;re facing!  The biggest issue I see is on the money right now.  You&#8217;re correct that public interest law is typically not highly paid (though a few firms have been working on a new business model that could alter that, to some degree), and animal rights law is in the same category.  What&#8217;s more, with the layoffs of the last 18 months or so, the market is saturated with highly qualified and experienced lawyers, which makes it more difficult for new lawyers to find a position.  That certainly isn&#8217;t to say it&#8217;s impossible, and it&#8217;s hard to guess what the market will be in 3-5 years, when you&#8217;d be finishing law school, but it&#8217;s something to consider.  Also, if you choose to apply, look *very* carefully at the school&#8217;s employment record, and be sure to ask for the percentage of graduates who are employed in the legal field at and within 6 months to a year following graduation.  A good education is important, but having a job is (for most of us) critical.</p>
<p>I just did a radio interview and we briefly addressed the decision about whether to attend law school.  If you&#8217;re interested, you can find the recording here: <a href="http://www.modavox.com/voiceamerica/vepisode.aspx?aid=42543" rel="nofollow">http://www.modavox.com/voiceamerica/vepisode.aspx?aid=42543</a></p>
<p>Whatever your decision, best wishes!</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>Comment on Don&#8217;t blow it! by Julie A. Fleming</title>
		<link>http://lifeatthebar.com/blog/index.php/2009/11/18/dont-blow-it/comment-page-1/#comment-31997</link>
		<dc:creator>Julie A. Fleming</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Nov 2009 15:06:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://lifeatthebar.com/blog/?p=979#comment-31997</guid>
		<description>Michelle,

Thanks for your comment!  You raise some good points.  Remaining calm and in control of one&#039;s temper is sometimes a tall order, and yet it can keep situations from spiraling out of control.  No need to be super-human, just aware of the choices we make.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Michelle,</p>
<p>Thanks for your comment!  You raise some good points.  Remaining calm and in control of one&#8217;s temper is sometimes a tall order, and yet it can keep situations from spiraling out of control.  No need to be super-human, just aware of the choices we make.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>Comment on &#8220;I hate being a lawyer&#8221; by Nicole</title>
		<link>http://lifeatthebar.com/blog/index.php/2007/10/03/i-hate-being-a-lawyer/comment-page-1/#comment-31942</link>
		<dc:creator>Nicole</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Nov 2009 05:05:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.lifeatthebar.com/blog/?p=293#comment-31942</guid>
		<description>I THINK that I am glad that I stumbled across this. I have been contemplating a career in law, scouting about the internet, looking at law schools, rumminating about it. I was a Teacher and it nearly drove me mad, having to contend with ungrateful, sarcastic teenagers all day whose primary purpose was to taunt the Teacher! My main reason for being compelled to law is wanting to &quot;make a difference,&quot; that is, wanting to practice environmental/animal rights law and/or public interest law. Secondly, I have a massive amount of student-loan debt, and would, of course, be accruing more if I went to law school. So, I would also like to make a substantial income and become solvent. Perhaps these two things are mutually exclusive, as I have heard that public interest and environmental/animal rights law is not the most lucrative. Anyway, after reading this I am questioning whether or not I want to pursue it after all. I am also a Creative Writer and would like to still have time and energy to do that at the end of the day, but am thinking that practicing law might not allow me that. Any specific thoughts related to my questions/concerns, anyone?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I THINK that I am glad that I stumbled across this. I have been contemplating a career in law, scouting about the internet, looking at law schools, rumminating about it. I was a Teacher and it nearly drove me mad, having to contend with ungrateful, sarcastic teenagers all day whose primary purpose was to taunt the Teacher! My main reason for being compelled to law is wanting to &#8220;make a difference,&#8221; that is, wanting to practice environmental/animal rights law and/or public interest law. Secondly, I have a massive amount of student-loan debt, and would, of course, be accruing more if I went to law school. So, I would also like to make a substantial income and become solvent. Perhaps these two things are mutually exclusive, as I have heard that public interest and environmental/animal rights law is not the most lucrative. Anyway, after reading this I am questioning whether or not I want to pursue it after all. I am also a Creative Writer and would like to still have time and energy to do that at the end of the day, but am thinking that practicing law might not allow me that. Any specific thoughts related to my questions/concerns, anyone?</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>Comment on &#8220;I hate being a lawyer&#8221; by Nicole</title>
		<link>http://lifeatthebar.com/blog/index.php/2007/10/03/i-hate-being-a-lawyer/comment-page-1/#comment-31941</link>
		<dc:creator>Nicole</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Nov 2009 05:03:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.lifeatthebar.com/blog/?p=293#comment-31941</guid>
		<description>I THINK that I am glad that I stumbled across this. I have been contemplating a career in law, scouting about the internet, looking at law schools, rumminating about it. I was a Teacher and it nearly drove me mad, having to contend with ungrateful, sarcastic teenagers all day whose primary purpose was to taunt the Teacher! My main reason for being compelled to law are wanting to &quot;make a difference,&quot; that is, wanting to practice environmental/animal rights law and/or public interest law. Secondly, I have a massive amount of student-loan debt, and would, of course, be accruing more if I went to law school. So, I would also like to make a substantial income and become solvent. Perhaps these two things are mutually exclusive, as I have heard that public interest and environmental/animal rights law is not the most lucrative. Anyway, after reading this I am questioning whether or not I want to pursue it after all. I am also a Creative Writer and would like to still have time and energy to do that at the end of the day, but am thinking that practicing law might not allow me that. Any specific thoughts related to my questions/concerns, anyone?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I THINK that I am glad that I stumbled across this. I have been contemplating a career in law, scouting about the internet, looking at law schools, rumminating about it. I was a Teacher and it nearly drove me mad, having to contend with ungrateful, sarcastic teenagers all day whose primary purpose was to taunt the Teacher! My main reason for being compelled to law are wanting to &#8220;make a difference,&#8221; that is, wanting to practice environmental/animal rights law and/or public interest law. Secondly, I have a massive amount of student-loan debt, and would, of course, be accruing more if I went to law school. So, I would also like to make a substantial income and become solvent. Perhaps these two things are mutually exclusive, as I have heard that public interest and environmental/animal rights law is not the most lucrative. Anyway, after reading this I am questioning whether or not I want to pursue it after all. I am also a Creative Writer and would like to still have time and energy to do that at the end of the day, but am thinking that practicing law might not allow me that. Any specific thoughts related to my questions/concerns, anyone?</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>Comment on Don&#8217;t blow it! by Michelle Alford</title>
		<link>http://lifeatthebar.com/blog/index.php/2009/11/18/dont-blow-it/comment-page-1/#comment-31900</link>
		<dc:creator>Michelle Alford</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Nov 2009 18:17:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://lifeatthebar.com/blog/?p=979#comment-31900</guid>
		<description>I&#039;m good at keeping calm in almost all situations, but I find that one of the hardest things to do is not to reflect other people&#039;s anger.  If someone is yelling or raising their voice at me, it&#039;s difficult not to do the same in return.  One thing to keep in mind, though, is that by remaining calm, you look like the reasonable one, regardless of what the disagreement is about.  Also, if you&#039;re calm, the other person is likely to calm down, while if you respond in anger, they&#039;re almost definitely going to do the same.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m good at keeping calm in almost all situations, but I find that one of the hardest things to do is not to reflect other people&#8217;s anger.  If someone is yelling or raising their voice at me, it&#8217;s difficult not to do the same in return.  One thing to keep in mind, though, is that by remaining calm, you look like the reasonable one, regardless of what the disagreement is about.  Also, if you&#8217;re calm, the other person is likely to calm down, while if you respond in anger, they&#8217;re almost definitely going to do the same.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>Comment on High Altitude Leadership:  What the World&#8217;s Most Forbidding Peaks Teach Us About Success (J-B US non-Franchise Leadership) by Michelle Alford</title>
		<link>http://lifeatthebar.com/blog/index.php/2009/11/11/high-altitude-leadership-what-the-worlds-most-forbidding-peaks-teach-us-about-success-j-b-us-non-franchise-leadership/comment-page-1/#comment-31542</link>
		<dc:creator>Michelle Alford</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Nov 2009 20:21:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://lifeatthebar.com/blog/?p=970#comment-31542</guid>
		<description>This is an amazing comparison.  All of the points ring true.  I&#039;ve seen the first point, about fear causing paralysis, a lot lately among friends of mine who have been out of work.  They&#039;ve accepted that their attempts are just going to fail (and it&#039;s easy to find things to blame, such as the bad economy and there being no jobs), that they don&#039;t see the point in even trying.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is an amazing comparison.  All of the points ring true.  I&#8217;ve seen the first point, about fear causing paralysis, a lot lately among friends of mine who have been out of work.  They&#8217;ve accepted that their attempts are just going to fail (and it&#8217;s easy to find things to blame, such as the bad economy and there being no jobs), that they don&#8217;t see the point in even trying.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
</channel>
</rss>

