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	<title>Comments on: Living fearlessly</title>
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		<title>By: oliviaharis</title>
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		<dc:creator>oliviaharis</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Aug 2008 09:08:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My theme for 2008 is living fearlessly.  I wasn’t intentionally searching for a new year’s resolution, but it smacked me in the face in numerous ways a few days ago.  I’ll explore this more in the coming weeks.
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My theme for 2008 is living fearlessly.  I wasn’t intentionally searching for a new year’s resolution, but it smacked me in the face in numerous ways a few days ago.  I’ll explore this more in the coming weeks.<br />
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oliviaharis<br />
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		<title>By: peter vajda</title>
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		<dc:creator>peter vajda</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Apr 2007 15:27:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Julie,

You write, &quot;What I am saying is that when something is off in job search or performance, it’s wise to ask whether there’s a chance that unconscious self-protection is manifesting as self-sabotage.  And that could be equally true if the lawyer is interviewing public service agencies while really want to work in a large firm and earn scads of money. &quot;

I think this can be true in many sitsuations. In addition, I think it&#039;s also important to consider that a self-image one has that says, &quot;I am lacking and deficient in some way, shape or form&quot; can also be at play and lead to self-sabotage. The conscious question, &quot;Who do I think I am and who do I take myself to be?&quot; can also reveal underlying, negative asssumptions and beliefs that can cause one to trip up, stumble, play &quot;small&quot;, and otherwise act as if one feels invisible, unworthy and value-less.

Too, fear can be viewed as  &quot;faith returning&quot;. Not faith as in religion but faith (courage)ion one&#039;s self....if, one is willing and able to go through the fear, experience it and see what&#039;s underneath it, as opposed to going around it.

Wonderful post and thanks.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Julie,</p>
<p>You write, &#8220;What I am saying is that when something is off in job search or performance, it’s wise to ask whether there’s a chance that unconscious self-protection is manifesting as self-sabotage.  And that could be equally true if the lawyer is interviewing public service agencies while really want to work in a large firm and earn scads of money. &#8221;</p>
<p>I think this can be true in many sitsuations. In addition, I think it&#8217;s also important to consider that a self-image one has that says, &#8220;I am lacking and deficient in some way, shape or form&#8221; can also be at play and lead to self-sabotage. The conscious question, &#8220;Who do I think I am and who do I take myself to be?&#8221; can also reveal underlying, negative asssumptions and beliefs that can cause one to trip up, stumble, play &#8220;small&#8221;, and otherwise act as if one feels invisible, unworthy and value-less.</p>
<p>Too, fear can be viewed as  &#8220;faith returning&#8221;. Not faith as in religion but faith (courage)ion one&#8217;s self&#8230;.if, one is willing and able to go through the fear, experience it and see what&#8217;s underneath it, as opposed to going around it.</p>
<p>Wonderful post and thanks.</p>
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