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Free Resources for Attorneys

Welcome to the free resources page.  Here you'll find white papers, audio files, transcripts of interviews, and assessments, all designed to help lawyers develop successful, satisfying, and sustainable practices.  

Please browse the library of resources below and note that we update it frequently with new material.

Archived Articles from Leadership Matters for Lawyers

The Essential Little Book of Great Lawyering  (12/16/2008)

The Essential Little Book of Great Lawyering is aptly named: at just 52 pages (including the title page, copyright, and table of contents), you'll need less than an hour to discover the essential skills of great lawyering. Some readers may be wondering why anyone would need a book to learn what great lawyering is, and some may be thinking that great lawyering "obviously" means possessing enormous technical expertise, good judgment, and years of experience in which to develop those attributes. That is what most lawyers mean by great lawyering. But what do clients mean?

Make the Most of Holiday Gatherings  (12/9/2008)

Networking is always a popular topic for lawyers who are engaged in rainmaking, and the reason is simple: the people who know, like, and trust you will have an enormous influence on your success in practice. And there's no time like the holidays for networking, because so many organizations and groups arrange holiday gatherings.

Peak or Valley?  (11/18/2008)

Evaluation time is near for most law firms now. The classic formal mechanism for evaluation includes collection and delivery of feedback on how well each lawyer is performing and might improve. Many firms also incorporate self-evaluation, in which the lawyer is asked to fill out a form that asks for self-evaluation in certain areas and sets plans for the future. If taken seriously, these programs can be very useful in helping to guide lawyers' professional development.

Book Review: The Happy Lawyer  (11/11/2008)

The Happy Lawyer bears the tag line, "How to gain more satisfaction, suffer less stress, and enjoy higher earnings in your law practice." Who doesn't want that? The book is a quick 188-page read, full of exercises to help clarify the practice and the clients that will allow you to create a satisfying practice. It then continues with suggestions on how to create that practice once you've identified it, how to attract the clients who will appreciate your efforts, and how to engage in a happy practice. The bottom line is not terribly surprising, though I like the way it's presented: to be a happy lawyer, figure out what you like about practice and then find ways to get more of that.

Guerilla-Style Marketing  (11/4/2008)

Suppose you're researching an area of law to get a feel for it, knowing that you're going to need to affiliate with someone who's an expert in the area. Would you be likely to contact someone who keeps popping up as an articles author on your topic, someone perhaps with a treatise to boot, who's spoken on the issue at a number of CLE meetings? Would you be more or less likely to contact someone whose name comes up once as an author, or once as a speaker, or once as a member of a relevant committee? I'd be willing to bet that you'd be more eager to speak with the first lawyer.

Representing the unrealistic client   (10/21/2008)

One should certainly consider whether to take on each client based not only on the merits of the proposed representation and the client's ability to pay, but also based on what kind of client the person promises to be. Difficult clients don't always appear to be difficult at first blush, though. And although most difficult clients cause stress and not danger, dealing with an unrealistic client can cost time and angst. Knowing how to handle unreasonable clients can mitigate all kinds of risks (from stress to bar complaints to physical threats), and that's the focus of today's article.

Book Review: Legal Business Development  (10/14/2008)

I must admit that I'm always a little skeptical about non-lawyers who purport to teach rainmaking or practice development skills. Nothing against non-lawyers, obviously, but I've seen too many suggestions that might work beautifully in another field but wouldn't fit at all in law. And so I wasn't sure what to expect when I picked up Legal Business Development. However, it turned out to be one of the best client development books I've ever read.

Finding Opportunity in Chaos  (10/7/2008)

One of the interesting things about moving in coaching circles is that I'm exposed to comments that I would likely never hear in the legal world. For instance, I've read articles and posts recently recommending a "media fast" to get away from all of the bad news because it's just an illusion. These articles urge readers to focus instead on the "truth" of "abundance".

I don't buy into that point of view -- indeed, I'm tempted to call it the ostrich view -- and yet I do think there's some truth to it. Today's article explains.

Free Resource: Legal Trends Network  (9/30/2008)

Legal Trends Network is a free user-driven resource and collaborative exchange for lawyers, judges, law professors, and social and restorative justice professionals. The website promotes lawyers as leaders and focuses on alternative modalities in dispute resolution and therapeutic processes in the practice of justice. Legal Trends is content-rich and offers many services for legal professionals.

Systems Awareness  (9/16/2008)

What does this have to do with leadership for lawyers? Simple: it's easy to get sucked into doing things in the usual way, but leaders train themselves to look at situations through fresh eyes and to consider new alternatives. And leaders know that one change will create a ripple effect, so they consider what the ripples might be. This attribute, systems awareness, is the focus of today's article.

Review :Leadership That Gets Results  (9/9/2008)

So it is with leadership styles. A key leadership competency is authenticity, but that doesn't mean that a leader will show up in the same way regardless of the situation. To give you a snapshot view into a selection of leadership styles, today's issue reviews a Harvard Business Review article by Daniel Goleman (perhaps best known for his work with emotional intelligence) titled Leadership That Gets Results. I use this article with clients who are working to improve their leadership abilities, and it always gets rave reviews.

The Art of Being Fully Present  (9/2/2008)

Today's article is about presence: the art of bringing full attention to a single activity. If you're feeling stressed or overwhelmed and you think you have too much to do to read this article, I urge you to take a moment and skim it. Being fully present to an activity is one of the top antidotes for stress.

Quote: The Being of Leadership  (8/26/2008)

I often like to ask clients, "Who must you be to lead effectively in this situation?" The leadership literature covers well what competencies leaders must develop and how they can do so, but less of that literature is focused on the "being" of leadership. Today's quotations take us right to that spot of being.

Do you know where you are?  (8/19/2008)

I imagine that those of you who tend to be rather literal and detailed-oriented have already composed a quick response to this question. Sitting at your desk, perhaps, or reading on a BlackBerry in an airport, thinking "Of course I know where I am! What a dumb question!"

Book Review: Selling the Invisible  (8/12/2008)

Selling the Invisible offers targeted suggestions for marketing services, using anecdotes to teach. Divided into eleven sections with multiple one- to three-page chapters in each section, Beckwith's book gives bite-sized lessons on what clients and prospects (that is, potential clients) want, expect, and find persuasive.

Sharing Feedback on an Assignment Gone Wrong  (8/5/2008)

I've been working for a partner for two years now (since I started with the firm) and I still have no idea what he wants. He assigns something to me and tells me what he wants, but when I deliver it, he tells me he wanted something different.

Do you feel that you must do it all yourself  (7/22/2008)

Part of leadership is knowing when and how to ask for feedback, brainstorming, and guidance. A mastermind group (or any other dedicated, focused, supportive group) is a terrific way both to receive and give this help. It also creates accountability, and the group tends to pull participants along by raising the bar on activity that advances a goal. Group coaching works for the same reasons.

How to attain a leadership role quickly  (7/15/2008)

Are you ready for the next level of leadership? Clients often ask what would be a good leadership opportunity beyond taking the lead on a piece of a client-service project.

Book Review: Fat Smoker  (7/8/2008)

David Maister has masterfully connected the dots in Strategy and the Fat Smoker.

Set 'em so you can reach 'em  (7/1/2008)

Some readers (and clients) have asked why it is that being specific about a goal makes its achievement more likely. Since that fits in so neatly with the invitation to David's call, that's the focus of today's article. I'd love to hear your feedback about this.

Quotation of the Month  (6/24/2008)

What do these quotes (especially when juxtaposed) say to you about leading teams of lawyers, either on a client service team or in a law firm?

4 Steps to Growing Your Leadership Presence  (6/17/2008)

Although many skills are at play in any leadership situation, today's focus is on leadership presence. How can you refine your leadership presence when interacting with clients and colleagues, and even in court? Read on to discover 4 aspects of leadership presence that you can begin using today with immediate effect.

Book Review: Fierce Conversations  (6/10/2008)

Fierce Conversations revolves around the "Mineral Rights conversation." This simple 7-step process can be used to get to the truth of a situation, create understanding about it, tackle the challenges in the situation, and enrich relationships in the process.

How To Draw Out Your Clients  (6/3/2008)

Today's article takes a look at leaders' communication skills, with a specific focus on drawing out the thoughts and concerns of the client. I've suggested a couple of exercises you might try, and I'd love to hear what you observe if you do give it a shot.

Quotation of the Month  (5/27/2008)

The following quotations make the connection between the leadership skill of listening and service to clients or potential clients.

Get the Edge in Client Service and Client Development  (5/20/2008)

What if leadership and business development were married? Or leadership and client service? Today's article will show you that leadership, client service, and client development are inextricably linked. What's more, those who recognize the link and act accordingly do have a competitive advantage in client service and rainmaking.

Servant-Leadership What's In It For Them  (5/6/2008)

Like a president, under at least some circumstances, lawyer-leaders must both lead and serve those who have "elected" them to a leadership position, whether in a client relationship or in firm management. And that's where today's article on servant-leadership comes in.

Change This  (4/29/2008)

Just sitting, especially when feeling tense or concentrating intently, can be physically demanding. That's why I aim to get up and move at least every 45 minutes and to incorporate physical activity into my day. If you've attended one of my Five Foundations of Time Mastery programs, you know that I hammer on this point. It's in that spirit that I offer you a resource this week: a short ChangeThis manifesto on embodied leadership.

Quotation of the Month  (4/22/2008)

As you read these quotes, consider in what situations a lawyer-leader can and should act as a servant, and in what contexts taking on that role could prove challenging.

What's the difference between leadership and management -- and why does it matter?  (4/15/2008)

I was a part of a facilitated discussion last week in which one participant opined that management and leadership are really the same thing, but leadership is a more attractive term that's more likely to generate buy-in. I strongly believe, however, that it's useful to draw the distinction between management and leadership and to choose which set of skills to use in any given circumstance.

HBR Article: Be a Better Leader, Have a Richer Life.  (4/8/2008)

Stewart Friedman urges leaders to seek "four-way wins," meaning high performance in the four domains of life: work, home, community, and self (mind, body, and spirit).

Understanding corporate literature to maximize practice management and client service  (4/1/2008)

Today's article looks to the corporate world both to inform attorneys' own practice management perspectives and also to forge a common bond with clients.

Quotation of the Month  (3/25/2008)

Consider both client relations and law firm management as you read this month's quotations. How do these quotes color your thoughts?

Leadership and Self Management -- Pt 2  (3/18/2008)

This week's article delves deeper into self-management and asks where your area of opportunity might lie. Perhaps you can improve the way you use your time, your ability to focus on the tasks and people in front of you, or something else. A strong foundation of self-mastery supports both individual achievement and leadership development. How can you strengthen your foundation?

Book Review: Leadership and Self Deception  (3/11/2008)

The concepts set out in this book are simple, though not necessarily easy, to apply. Since most of what lawyers do revolves around communicating and working with others, opportunities to use the learning abound.

Leadership and Self Management  (3/4/2008)

A leader's development tends to proceed through three stages. The first stage is self-management. The second is individual achievement. The third is leading others. Although these three stages are distinct from one another, they may coexist and a leader may move back and forth through these stages at various times. Today's discussion focuses on the first stage: self-management or leadership of oneself.

Quotations of the Month  (2/26/2008)

Next week's article will address self-management and leadership. In that vein, consider these quotes . . .

The Tightrope: Tensions in Leadership for Lawyers  (2/12/2008)

It shouldn't be a secret that certain tensions surround leadership for lawyers. This article examines a few prevalent tensions.

What Does Leadership Mean for Lawyers?  (1/29/2008)

Think of a leader you know. Perhaps this person is someone in your firm, someone you know through a bar organization, or perhaps even opposing counsel in a case you've had.

Does Leadership Matter for Lawyers?  (1/15/2008)

The first step on the leadership development path lies in revealing the many dimensions of leadership, which opens opportunities for a leader's growth. And it's that conversation where we begin by asking the question: Does Leadership Matter for Lawyers?

Free Resources by Request

  • White paper: 7 Secrets Law Firm Associates Need to Know to Find Better Work, Faster Advancement, and Greater Professional Satisfaction  Practice is challenging, no doubt about it.  But if you know these seven secrets, you'll advance more quickly into the practice you want to develop.  This report is written primarily for associates (as the title indicates), but it's also a helpful reminder for more senior lawyers.
     

  • Raising the Bar Assessment  Designed especially for newer lawyers but useful for lawyers at almost any stage of practice, this 10-minute assessment will pinpoint what's going right (and what could go better) in your practice.  You'll look at your office environment, your health and emotions as they relate to practice, your finances, your professional relationships, and your practice and rainmaking habits.
     

  • Top 10 Tips for Email Management  Feel like you're drowning in email?  Despair of ever seeing an empty in-box again?  Check out these top 10 tips.
     

  • Audio -- Interview with Cole Silver  In this interview, I discuss why leadership is so important for lawyers, why lawyers should engage in leadership development especially in today's weakened economy, and the resources that I recommend for those interested in strengthening their leadership skills.   (Prefer to read it?  You'll receive a link for the transcript, too.)
     

  • White paper: Three Barriers to Business Development Success -- and the Solutions You Need to Break Through  COMING SOON!

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